BTW research shows that butch/femme lesbian relationships are just as likely to have power equality/power balance between parties as any other lesbian relationships.

aka the butch is not “”the man in the relationship”“, since ‘being the man’ comes with having power over ‘the woman’ bc we still live in a patriarchy 

straight/non lesbian people: consider this for 5 fucking seconds before you equate a butch lesbian to a man bc not only is it gross and misogynistic as hell but its been proven wrong so 

also lesbians do not have the male gaze, butch performance of ‘masculinity’ is nothing like male masculinity, there’s more to being a woman than performance of femininity

too darn bad u cant cite sources for ur lesbophobia huh ¯\_(ツ)_/¯